Questions & answers

Is this a dating site? Can a Master find and contact me here?

No. SlaveRegistry.eu is a registry: it records you as a slave — your number (SLRN), your certificate and, once confirmed, who owns you. Members cannot message each other and there is no partner search, so nobody contacts you through the site.

Your number and your page are yours to share. Looking for an owner? Put the link to your page (slaveregistry.eu/slave/ followed by your number) on your profile wherever you meet people, for instance on FetLife. The page Spread the word has texts ready to copy.

How do I get my owner’s name on my registration?

You cannot type it in yourself: an ownership only goes on the record when you both agree. Your Master creates an account with the role Master, opens your page and clicks Claim Ownership. You get a mail and confirm the claim under Pending Claims on your page. From then on your owner is on your registration and on your certificate.

Your Master is not registered yet? The page Spread the word has an invitation ready to send.

How do I change or end an ownership?

On your registration page, click End this ownership next to your owner’s name. We mail you a link to confirm; once you click it, the ownership has ended and your owner is told. That Master cannot claim you again for 30 days. Your owner can also end it from their side with Release Ownership.

A new owner claims you the same way as the first, and you confirm. You can have more than one owner at the same time.

Did you give up the right to end the ownership yourself? Then only your owner can release you — or write to us.

Who can see my registration and my owner?

You choose under Edit registration: public (everyone), registered only (signed-in members) or private (only you and your owners).

Your owner’s name shows on your page as long as your Master keeps Show on profile switched on for you in their Master profile. You and your owners always see it.

I had a number on another registry, such as the old SlaveRegistry.com. Can I keep it?

Often, yes. Under Edit registration, fill in Keep your previous number. A moderator checks the number; until then you use the number we gave you, and afterwards that number keeps pointing to you too. Numbers from SlaveRegistry.com are carried over exactly, barcode included.

Only fill this in if you really had a number elsewhere; asked by mistake? You can withdraw the request there while it is waiting.

I am no longer a slave. Can I pause or delete my registration?

Yes — at the bottom of Edit registration, under Pause or delete your registration. Choose Pause my registration and your registration is hidden straight away: only you can see it, it no longer shows up in searches or on your owner’s profile, and nobody can claim you. Your details and ownerships stay, and you can resume whenever you like.

Choose Delete my registration to remove your details, picture and ownerships for good; your account stays. Your number is never given to anyone else: if you come back later, register again with the same e-mail address, confirm it, and you can take your number back.

How do I delete my whole account?

Go to Your data & privacy and choose Delete your account. We mail you a link, and nothing is deleted until you click it. Your details, photos and ownerships are then removed for good.

Your number is the one thing that stays reserved: it is never given to anyone else, and its page simply says the registration was withdrawn. If you ever come back with the same e-mail address, you can take it back.

How do I reach the team?

Signed in: use Contact the team. We answer on the site and send you a short mail when an answer is waiting. Without an account, use the feedback form — we read everything, but cannot answer you. Please do not reply to our mails; they are not read.